CAN PARENTS AVOID INTRODUCING NEGATIVE [SELF-IMPOSED THOUGHTS] IN THE MIND OF A CHILD? Especially when this is done before the child is two or three years of age.
The answer will surprise ... and dismay you!
As I have said quite often in my blogs... modern mental health does not begin to deal with the MIND of Man! And the reason is that the physical brain cannot perceive the non-physical MIND...! And modern mental health [following the lead of modern psychology] ignores the MIND entirely today. Even worse, modern mental health is fixated upon the brain and thinking as the sole "cause of" negative behavior. And this is done while doing what can to done to eliminate the concept of the MIND as being other than the brain entirely! And the reason for this is non-conscious and deeply repressed fears "Within" the MINDs of many in "psychology" today... and sadly... they have no idea they possess these fears!
The natural tendency of a human being is to depend upon the brain and thinking in his or her dealings with the world. In my old sketch I try to illustrate this point:
Please note that in the first circle to the left, #1, there is the word "brain". The brain is part of the physical structure or dimension of Man. And the brain, being physical... cannot perceive any of the other dimensions of Man: #2, #3, or #4. It is the natural tendency of most people to confine themselves to use of the brain in relating to the world. This is called "Intellectualism".
The opposite of Intellectualism would be covered by the term "Enlightened". An Enlightened person is one whose Soul has converted a substantial amount of [MIND-level Consciousness] from being attached to the things of the Creation ...back to joining parts of one's Soul back to one's being aware of one's Consciousness [one's Spiritual Dimension]. This type person will naturally be inclined toward goodness, kindness, patience, and forgiveness. A person who seeks Spiritual understanding, in other words. That part of everyone that is "attached" to the elements of Creation is subject to being controlled and operated by his or her MIND [whose job is to insure that every Soul fully and completely explore and experience the Creation]! This operation by one's MIND is called "Karma". And Karma is like a ladder which every Soul is climbing... with difficulty. The "purpose of life" is to climb this ladder, and as we near the top of the ladder, we begin to awaken to the Spirituality of our own Soul "Within" us, and this means we become more "Conscious" or our own Consciousness, and our Spirituality.
In the Western parts of the world it is quite rare for children to be encouraged to study the invisible dimensions of the Whole Human Being, or WHB. These dimensions are #2, #3, and #4 in the sketch.
Check yourself on what you KNOW about the invisible dimensions of yourself? Such as your MIND... both the lower and higher MIND. Both are "Within" Man, but both are also composed of energies that are not capable of being perceived by the brain or one's physical senses. And #4 is the Pure Spiritual Dimension, which is the Energy of one's Soul... which I believe is also called "Consciousness". Your Soul is also an aspect of the Pure Spiritual Energy of God... and we human beings are visiting the Creation to experience, explore, and obtain "Wisdom". And to insure we do so God Created the Law of Karma, which is the Primary Law of Creation, and in the West, we tend to ignore this Law.
But, the Law of Karma is the Primary Law of Creation, and every living Soul is subject to this Law! And in the West, largely due to Intellectualism... the "Ego" [which is an expression of one's MIND] keeps one "stuck" in thinking, while ignoring the unknown [invisible] elements of life. The problem with this is that the MIND also spends much of its time attempting to "protect" one from taking responsibility for any negativity that one experiences in life. This self-protective process is universal, and based on how much Enlightenment one's Soul has acquired in the many lifetimes one has lived in the Creation? In other words, we do not assume responsibility for negativity until one's Soul has acquired a substantial amount of "humility". And we can go on with this, but you get the gist of what I am saying, correct?
And we have wandered far into the nature of being human... which is necessary to address our primary question regarding a parent and a child's MIND? That is, what transpires at a deep MIND level between a child and a parent is not intentional, nor is it "arbitrary"! Each of us [every child] is born with a "Fate Karma" that is destined for us. And one's "Life" "WILL"conform to this Fate Karma.
This last is to help each parent ease his or her responsibility for the deeply repressed "misperceptions" taken-on by a child's MIND at... and near the time of the birth of that child.
So, Fate Karma is a fact of life. And the parent's influence of elements of the child's Fate Karma is not intentional, but can and does influence how important elements of the child's Fate Karma will be taken by the MIND of the child? And this blog is to set the stage, so to speak, for one or two more blogs that will hopefully be helpful for parents to avoid emphasizing the negative self-view of a child's MIND.
Peace, 1 Brother James [James W. Patterson, Ph.D.]. esodoc@gmail.com